Three Men and a Lady!

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

GOD MOMENTS given freely!

 Today I wish God had a dictionary.  I wish he defined all the reasons things happen.  Why do some people struggle with fertility?  Why does cancer strike a otherwise healthy woman?  Why does a  man have a stoke and suffer for 500 days before going heaven?  Why does a family have to mourn the loss of their teenage son? 

I wish I had a sewing machine to mend broken hearts, fix broken bodies, and repair the soul.  I don't.  I only have faith.  Faith that God has such a tool to do these things.  Faith that those who hurt are embraced by the ones they love, hugs are given freely, tears are wiped away, and miracles rise from ashes to be celebrated.

A women I recently met told me she did not believe in God.  She never had "God  Moment" that led her to believe GOD existed.  Never had a "God Moment"?  Don't God moments happen all the time?  I believe God appears throughout the day. Sometimes, it is a jaw dropping event.  Other times, it is a simple, otherwise unnoticed gesture. 

At church last Sunday, a woman gave a testimony on how she carried  out our mission statement.  She told a story of a young women who had been visiting the chiropractic office in which she worked.  This young lady had suffered as many as 60 seizures a day.  After some chiropractic treatment, they reduced to only a few a week.  The young lady decribes the doctor's hands as, "angel hands".....GOD MOMENT.

There is that feeling you get when you cannot shake someone from your mind.  You feel this on your heart and you reach out to them.  Three years ago.  I felt this strong, loving feeling to reach out to women about to give birth to twin boys.  Three years later, she is one of my dearest and most treasured friends.....GOD MOMENT.

Last week, I sent a message to a woman I know to let her know I was thinking of her, she too was on my mind.  She and her husband have been unable to conceive, and are now exploring options that will take them across the country. She sent me back a message telling me she needed to be thought of that day.....GOD MOMENT.

My son's look me in the eye and tell me that they love me.....GOD MOMENT!

An entire community, including high school students, family, friends and a fantasy football team, come together to celebrate the life of a young man who has been promoted to heaven.....GOD MOMENT.

Watching my husband, exhausted from working long hours, plow out the driveways of the people who live around us because they are elderly, paralyzed or cannot afford to buy a snow blower....GOD MOMENT. 

So while I cannot take away the pain of those around me today.  I can do my best to listen, watch and feel the GOD MOMENTS as he works through us all.  I pray all those hurting will be rocked with a GOD MOMENT today. 

Monday, February 18, 2013

Blessed in a land of BOYS!

As a female, and the product of a "only girls" family, I continue to marvel at the "roughness" of boys.  Honestly, my floors should be covered with wrestling mats, my furniture made of foam and my walls padded.  It is pointless to count the amount of times, per day, I say "stop wrestling", "be gentle" or "BOYS"!

I have to admit, we had a hand in creating these creatures.  We did encourage Owen to participate in wrestling.  However, I have to believe that the nature of testosterone plays a strong role in this behavior.  How did my mother-in-law survive 4 boys......how did her house survive???? 

Truth be told, in this house toys break often, legs are covered in bruises, and we all have calluses on our feet from stepping on Lego's.  My boys make BIG messes, talk in BIG voices, and love BIG bodily functions.  But, they also give BIG hugs, love with BIG hearts, and laugh with BIG smiles. 

Being the only female in the land of superheroes, fantasy football and wrestling trophies is full of adventure.  I learn something new every day and I shake my head in bewilderment often.  But, being the only female also comes with a degree of royalty.  3 men tell me they love me daily, 3 men give me hugs and kisses, 3 men tell me I look nice, 3 men like MOST of my cooking, 3 men snuggle with me at bedtime, and 3 men protect me from bugs, dogs, and other icky stuff. 

So my life may never be full of barbies, wedding dress shopping or tea parties, but it will be full of blessings.  Dirt-on-the-face, sticky-fingered, sportswear -covered, mommy protecting BLESSINGS.
Our Wrestling Man

Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Goodbye Summer

Goodbye to.....flip-flops, sweaty walks, iced-coffee, baseball gloves, life jackets, bug spray, sun block, campfires, s’mores, sand in “unders”, sunsets after "bedtime", the smell of BBQ, lightening bugs, fresh cut grass, pulling weeds, wildflowers, rock skipping.....summer.




Goodbye to the most precious, memorable summer I have had as a mother. Praise God for the moments I had with my sweet boys.



Welcome....crisp mornings, fall colors, autumn hikes, school days, spiced-pumpkin lattes, leaf- pile jumping, pumpkin picking, squash tasting...fall.



I cannot wait to experience this next season of our lives. We are blessed.

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

It is hard to believe I haven't posted on this blog in 6 months.  Honestly, I don't know where the time has gone.  The Korbel Klan has gone through some rather large changes since I last updated you all. 

Last fall, I made a pretty tough decision.  I decided to quit my full-time job and stay home with my boys.  Paul and I discussed this idea at length for almost a year before I actually gave my notice.  I prayed about it, talked about it, "slept on it", dreamt about it and finally, I did it.  December 30th was my last day at McGregor Chiropractic  I officially hung up my scrubs and SOAP notes for crayons and trains!

The biggest concern for our little family was income.  We were used to me having a steady paycheck.  Sometimes God gives you signs, big bright billboard signs.  About the time I was doing all my praying, thinking and dreaming our daycare provider was doing the same thing.  She was really considering going back to school.  While we were really sad to say goodbye to such a wonderful woman who cared for our babies, we were thrilled she was following her dreams. 
So here is where the "sign" came in:
- I, being a slightly crazy mom, didn't want to go through the whole "finding a new daycare" process (and honestly no one would be "as good as Sara"). 
-I needed a little income to buy groceries and gas. 
-Sara had families with little blessing that needed care.

If there is such thing as a "light bulb" moment, I had it.  Why not offer daycare in my home?  I loved teaching and well crafts and playing, that is a bonus. 

So that is when, There's No Place Like Home daycare was born and my heart got 5 blessings bigger.  TNPLH is currently the second home to four families and five little munchkins.  We play, learn, pray, discover and wipe noses four days a week.

I have to be honest.  In the beginning, I kind of wondered what I had gotten myself into.  Easton struggled, he really struggled so I struggled.  It is hard to open your house, your possessions and yourself sometimes. But, we got through it, we survived and we are beyond happy!

I cannot express how wonderful it feels to be spending my days at home with my children (and a couple other cuties).  I get to drop Owen off at school.  I get to pick him up from school.  I get laundry done before 10pm,  supper is homemade, my floors are clean (most of the time), I don't miss school functions (I even have gotten to volunteer at some) and our family actually eats together every night.  I am there for the moments.  The homework time, bath time, and the after school snack time.  I refuse to take any of these moments for granted because for the last 6 years, I missed a whole lot of them.

I feel blessed.  Even in moments of trial, I feel blessed.  At the beginning of May our sub pump failed, flooding our basement. The next day our my third child (my camera) got destroyed in the rain.  Several days later our air went out in our van.  Stress was heightened and tension tried to set in.  The truth is, these are replaceable things.  Minuscule possessions and luxuries in life really.  Moments, those we share with the ones we love, they cannot be replaced.  I am so grateful and downright blessed for these moments I have prayed for, for so long. God is awesome!


Thursday, November 24, 2011

My handsome "Ring Man"

Photo Taken By: Me

Owen was recently asked to participate in the wedding of a couple very near and dear to our family. Here are a few pictures from his debut as the "ring man" (what he ended up calling himself because he could not remember the word ring bearer!)




Photo Taken By: Me

                                                 Photo Taken By: Me

Photo Taken By:Me

Photo Taken By: Everybody Photography
(*Note: Owen is holding a sign that says BLAH!)

Photo Taken By: Everybody Photography


 It was a beautiful fall day and a beautiful wedding.  We are blessed to have Jonathan and Julianna Arjes in our lives 

Thursday, October 6, 2011

My husband...the Paperboy

Long before our family and the rest of the world wake up, my husband is busy working.  He fold, bags and delivers the newspaper.  The mornings are quiet.  They can be dark, cold, snow-covered or rainy.  His walk is a strategic one. It is quick paced and carefully planned. Almost calculated as not to be late for his "main job".



The sun peeks up over the horizon as he pulls his Grand Prix back in our currently leaf covered driveway.  He doesn't complain, but he yawns more often and sometimes falls asleep at bedtime prayers. 

My husband amazes me.  He is determined, dedicated and willing.  He takes pride in everything and every job he does.   Most of us would be disgusted with a 3:30am wake-up call.  He may hit the snooze a few times, but he doesn't hesitate to climb out of our warm bed and begin his day. 


Why does he do it?  Well years ago it was to help us financially.  He stepped up so I could spend more time with our children.  Today, it is to help us stay ahead.  I am thankful.  He sacrifices his time each and everyday to give us time.  He does this all and he still makes his family a priority.

I am so proud, blessed and honored to call him my husband.  He leads by example and is teaching our sons what a "real man' is. 

His hands are callused from years of working as a mechanic, gray hair is peeking threw his facial hair, his brown eyes sometimes show pure exhaustion, his shoulders are broad and open to lean on .  But when you meet him you also can clearly see he wears his heart on his sleeve.  It is big and loving and full of grace. 

If our sons take away just a fraction of Paul's goodness, they will be forever blessed.  I know I am.  I am blessed to be married to the paper boy.

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Fall...ing Behind

It is hard to believe the warm season has graciously left us and fall is in the air.  Our summer was a multitude of things: hot, cold, busy, too short and memorable.  We tried our best to cram everything possible in the great-outdoors.  We took a family vacation to the north shore, bought bicycles, camped, fished, geocached, and hiked.  I did my best to keep up with my walking, but an angry low back and a shoulder injury set me back a little bit.  Thankfully I am recovering and hoping this autumn offers a few "walk worthy" days.

Owen started first grade a few short weeks ago and our evenings have been filled with this new concept they call homework.  This is not a joyful time in the Korbel household, as he becomes EXTREMELY frustrated with reading.  I try to remind him, like with anything new, this will take time to master.  This is difficult for him, as he has always seemed to excel in his "firsts".   We as parents practice patience and let me tell you this is sometimes challenging .  Prayers this becomes "easier"  with time.  Reading can be such a wonderful, life long, hobby.

Easton remains the MESSIEST child alive.  He continues to leave his "Easton Tracks"  where ever he goes.  This generally means snot wipes on the couch,  food stains on his shirt and potty on the floor.  Bless his dirty little self.  He is talking up a storm and asking questions.  Oh boy! 

Paul started a new job here in town at Viracon.  We are so blessed he LOVES his job.  There is so much to be thankful for, especially benefits!

I had a first this week.  I shot a wedding.  Shot, being in the photography sense that is.  After over 10 hours of prime photo opts I captured 1300 images of this beautiful couples day.  I have started to edit the photos now.  I celebrate with each moment I caught.  It is those simple moments that continue to mold my passion for this art.

Here is a glimpse of the day....the rest will have to await the brides approval.

Saturday, June 18, 2011

Listing: Full-Time Marriage with Benefits

When Paul and I stood at the alter of our church eight years ago (this Tuesday) we made a promise, a commitment before God and our families and friends.  We promised in sickness and in health til death do us part to continue this union of marriage. 

In a society where divorce rates are increasing and statically less people are actively attending church the word "marriage" is loosely used.

You see marriage is a life-long career.  It is not listed as a temporary position in the want ads.  God created marriage for the long term. 

Marriage is not always easy however.  When two people, who have been uniquely made come together there is bond to be indifference.  Marriage is a full-time job with benefits. 

I believe most people mentally write the resume of the the partner they pray they will have one day. A woman may require their husband to be God-fearing, hard working, athletic, and loving.   Men may require their wife to be motherly, adventurous, organized or intelligent. 

We often look for someone who shares our faith, our values and our ideas.  But, as I said before we are two different minds uniquely created and sometimes there is chaos in our "shared position". 

I am, my no means, a marriage expert.  Eight years and a few devotionals later doesn't give me more points, but I am aware of how maintenance works.

Most jobs we work have a maintenance and cleaning crew.  These people fix what is broken and clean what is messy.  In marriage, that is up to us.  We disagree and insult each other.  We are quick to anger and slow to ask for forgiveness.  We break promises and make messy decisions.  It is hard to admit we are wrong and easy to blame.

We must learn to forgive, think before we speak, listen and be slow to anger.  This is a full-time job.  We must pray together, learn together and make decisions together. We must celebrate our differences as man and women and try our best to understand and embrace why God created us this way. 

So we know this is hard work, but trust me there are benefits:

Insurance coverage.   When committed to one anther we can guarantee full coverage of love.  Being loved and cared for improves our health and well being.


Life Insurance. Commitment.  Knowing, for the rest of your earthly life you will share it with anther human being, is blissful.

Dental.  Sharing this union is subject to lots of smiling and laughing.


Parenthood. Love can create new life. And parenthood, is one of the most exciting benefits of marriage. It comes with it's share of challenges, but likewise it's share of rewards.


My grandparents will celebrate 59 years of marriage this week.  When asked at a wedding, how they got that far my grandfather replied, "remember two words, yes dear".  Whether you are a man or women you can remember these words.  Try to understand your partner whether it is yes dear, I can imagine that bothers you or it is yes dear, I was wrong.  But also think of it as yes God, I will give this job everything I have got.  Marriage is indeed a full-time job with benefits.

Thursday, June 16, 2011

I am a runner???

So I walked a half marathon.... now what goals do I set for myself?  I could do a full one I suppose, or raise money and participate in the Susan B. Komen walk (http://www.the3day.org/) .  Frankly, I don't have the time to train to walk 26.2 miles and I am TERRIBLE about asking people for donations (especially over $2000 worth). 


So my next goal....running.  Yup, that gross thing I GREATLY disliked in school.  Mile time came and I dreaded the day.   I run only to get away from scary dogs or to catch a stray child approaching danger.  I am out of breath in the end and wanna puke.

Why do you ask, would I want to run then?

Well, I figure I can walk a mile in less then 16 minutes so why not knock it up a notch and jog a little.  You see, I am in better shape now then I have been in a few years and I am feeling physically capable of this challenge.

I researched running programs and came across "From the Couch to a 5K"  method (http://www.coolrunning.com/engine/2/2_3/181.shtml) and started it about 2 1/2 weeks ago.  Today I ran a mile....without stopping...or puking, but definitely panting. 

New goal .....run a 5K.  Yup, come September I will lace up my shoes again and run.  I won't break any records (or bones I hope) and I will cross another finish line.  Rest assured I will run. 

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Our Graduate

It's hard to believe the school year is nearly over and my sweet six-year-old has almost completed Kindergarten. 

We attended his "Graduation Ceremony" this evening along with Mimi, Papa, Aunt Kelly and special friends Kathy, Julianna, and Johnny. 

I glowed while Owen read his line and sang "This Little Light of Mine" (awesomely acceptable at a Christian School).

We are so blessed to be the parents of this little man!  Congratulations Owen, "We love you to the moon and back!"

      (Note: I am wearing heels and he comes up to my armpit in this photo.  Wow)

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Our Blessed May!

Summer may finally have reached the frozen tundra we call Minnesota.   The last few days have been lovely with an occasional shower (becoming somewhat of a theme here). 

The Korbel's are busy counting our blessing.  May brought us lots of joy. 

Paul got a new job here in town!!!  No more filling up the gas tank three times a week.  He will be working as a forklift/company truck mechanic for a local glass coating company.  We were humbled to know this job comes with WONDERFUL benefits (something we have not had in a LOOONG time), awesome hours (off work by 3pm) and good pay.  Our prayers were answered!!! 

I completed my first WALKING half marathon with a time of 3:28:16 (I had a goal of 4:30).  My almost 57-year-old mom and I crossed the finish line hand and hand and completely soaked.  Yes, it rained all but 100 yards of our 13.1 mile walk in the countryside. 

Owen's first year of school is winding down.  With a mere 5 days left of Kindergarten my eldest son will officially be a 1st grader.  We, after lots of praying and discussion, have decided to keep him at St. Mary's again next year.  We have been impressed with the Christian Education he has received and look forward to his continued growth educationally and spiritually. 

Easton, our baby, turned 2!!!  He is ALMOST potty trained!  Since May 5th he has been in underwear.  We continue to put a diaper on him at bedtime as he tends to wake up wet.  At this point he is telling us when he has to go "poopy" (the word he uses for all  bodily functions).  He has had NO accidents since Saturday and I am hopeful this continues to be the trend. 

We spent Memorial Day weekend at the lake with Papa and Mimi  fishing, grilling and reflecting on the lives given for our freedom. 


We are counting down the days until we head NORTH (the north shore that is) for our annual family vacation.  We all are in need of a little  R&R. 

Bring on summer God!  We have our bug spray, sunscreen, swimsuits and weeding gloves ready!!!





Thursday, May 19, 2011

The time has come...

It's here.  In less than 48 hours I will don my walking shoes, tighten my laces, and walk 13.1 miles.  It has been a journey.  I have gained endurance, faith and confidence.  I have lost almost 30 pounds.  I have sacrificed a little and learned a lot.  I can run with my boys and fit in my "old jeans".  Saturday is more than a race to the finish, it is just the beginning of a healthy new life. 

"Motivation is what gets you started, habit is what keeps you going."  -author unknown

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

We're Baaaaack!

It is hard to believe an entire month has flown by since I last posted. The Korbel's have been BUSY! Spring, though it feels more like March, is hear and we are doing our best to enjoy it.


Here is a brief run-down on the Korbel Klan:

Paul- Busy as can be. Gas prices are definitely rearing their ugly heads this month. The drive to Albert Lea is getting expensive. Even though we have been experiencing below normal temps, Paul was happy to put the snow boats away for the season and deliver the papers in tennis shoes. My awesome hubby put his amazing mechanical skills to the test this weekend as he did an emergency repair on my van. A few hundred dollars later and without a hoist; my new alternator "runs like a charm".

Lisa- I continue to train for my 1/2 marathon which is now a few short weeks away. Despite a strained posterior tibialis I have pushed thorough it and am proud to report doing great. Mom and I completed an almost 13-mile jaunt on Sunday with no problem (although I must admit I was tired on Monday). Work has been incredibly busy, so I am looking forward to hiring a new staff member soon and reducing my work hours.

Owen- Owen is nearing the end of his first year of school. Through pray and God's grace he will attend St. Mary's again next year. He continues to amaze us with his maturity, manners, faith and academics. I am so proud (even if he has an insufficient in the Hail Mary ((he doesn't have to pass this since we don't practice Catholicism))) He is so happy spring is here and wants to spend every moment possible in the great outdoors.

Easton- Easton, my baby, turns 2 on Saturday. I can hardly believe this little blessing has been part of our lives that long. He recently climbed into the 25% for size (looking back, at two, Owen was 10 lbs heavier and 6 inches taller) A milestone was reached tonight, as he told me he had to use the potty and actually went. Not expecting much, but would love to ditch the diapers soon. Each day brings more vocabulary for this growing boy. He is determined to keep up with his big brother.



It seems the days slip away from us, but we make sure we always count our blessings.

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

This boy can eat!!!!!

I cannot believe how much food my 24 pound, almost 2-year-old can consume.

Today's Menu(s) included:

Breakfast:  2 bowls of Toasty O's (Trader Joe's version of Cheerios) with almond milk
                 1 cup almond milk
                 handful of blueberries
                 Trader Joe's granola bar

AM Snack:  1 handful of Annie's Sour Cream and Onion Bunnies
                    Snapea Dried Peas
                    sample of banana chips, ginger snaps and juice at Trader Joe's

Lunch:  Panera BP &J sandwich
            Yogurt
             Soy milk
             Dessert: 1 scoop cotton candy ice cream from Cold Stone

PM Snack (s):   1 handful blueberries
                         1 apple
                         banana chips
                        Annie's Bunny Grahams
                        Pb & J Crackers (3 small)

Supper:   Whole wheat fish taco with cheese, lettuce, and orange peppers
               Strawberries
               1 bite of a brussel sprout
               1 cup almond milk


Bedtime Snack:  Pirate booty white puffcorn
                          1 cup chocolate almond milk


Not to mention about an additional 4 cups of water


I am scared to see what it is going to be like in the teenage years.  I see lots of $$$ signs now!

Sunday, March 27, 2011

My To-Do List

After reading a old friend's blog I decided I too need a to-do list.
I figure posting it on my blog will help, as you all can hold me accountable. 

1. Walk a half marathon with my mom- Since Feb 5th I have put more than 100 miles on my walking shoes.  I cannot wait until May 21st when I tie them up and walk 13.1 miles.  It has been a journey, let me tell you.  I never thought a little walk could change my attitude on a healthy lifestyle, but it has.  I also am enjoying all the mother/daughter time I have shared with my mom as we have been training.

2. Lose 40 pounds by June 25th (when we leave for vacation)- I am proud to say since I began training in February I have dropped 14 pounds.  Not only am I enjoying the feeling from working out, but I like the results too. 
3. Daily devotions- Paul and I have made a commitment to do a daily devotional together.  We are utilizing the 365 days of devotions by the authors of the Love Dare.  This is all new to us and even though we go to church, teach Sunday school, pray with our kids and speak daily about God we have never had the intimacy of praying and learning together.  I admit the first night was a little awkward, but it was pretty awesome to have my best friend and life partner to take this challenge together.  We look forward to enriching our marriage, faith and our relationship with Christ. 

4. Save more and work less-  It is my hope (and my daily prayer) that by summer I will be working less and spending more time with my precious sons.  Saving money and spending less is becoming more habitual for us and we continue to learn how to be more frugal daily. 

5. Organize- My back store room could use an overhauling.  We desperately need to organize and label the boys things.  Not quite ready to part with anything yet, as we are not sure our family is complete yet.  Time to break out the label maker (one of my favorite electronics).


Cannot wait to check these off of my TO-DO list!

Saturday, March 19, 2011

I'm a big boy now!

It is official.  Easton is a big boy!




No....more.....crib......

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

It has been confirmed......

this boys is always hungry.


Thank goodness HyVee had a sale on Annie's Bunnies this month plus I had a coupon!  Let me tell you I stocked up.  I think we should consider taking out stock in Trader Joe's.  Their apple juice (watered down of course) and granola bars have become a staple our house. 

It is surprising to me he still remains in the 15% range for his age.  Then again, he has quite the digestive tract and he is his father's son!!

Sunday, March 13, 2011

What's for dinner.

I found this recipe on http://www.weightwatchers.com/ and thought I would give it a whirl.

Fish Tacos
Ingredients
8 item(s) frozen breaded fish stick(s)
4 large burrito-size wheat flour tortilla(s)
1/4 cup(s) light sour cream
1/2 cup(s) salsa
2 cup(s) lettuce, shredded
1 large tomato(es), chopped
2 oz low-fat cheddar or colby cheese, shredded (about 1/2 cup)

Instructions:

Cook fish sticks according to package directions.

Wrap tortillas in aluminum foil and warm in a 350°F oven for about 10 minutes.

Top each tortilla with 2 fish sticks, 1 tablespoon of sour cream, 2 tablespoons of salsa, 1/2 cup of lettuce, 1/4 of the tomato and 2 tablespoons of cheese; roll up tortillas and serve.

I omitted the tomato and sour cream and added mashed avacado instead. The boys loved it and so did Paul and I.  It was simple prep and easy clean-up!



Easton thought the fish tacos rocked.  I think he ate a pound of blueberries too!

Saturday, March 12, 2011

Faith and the FLU

Is happy to report after a horrible week we are all smiling tonight.

Influenza A took up residence in the body of my 6-year-old son this week.  I cannot express how awful this was.  He had an extremely high fever (104 degrees), hardly spoke and spent an entire day on the couch moaning. 

I have to admit this was probably one of the most scary experiences I have had as a mother.  I tried my best to tend to his every need.  He was so mad at me though.  He cried when I made him drink water and when I placed him in a cool bath.  He probably thought I was the worst mommy ever. 

I prayed.  I prayed for his fever to stop, for the Tamiflu to start working and for rest for us all.

By Thursday his eyes were twinkling again. 

By Friday he was bouncing off the walls (a call to the doctor confirmed increased hyperactivity is a side effect in 1% of children who use this medication, we collectively decided to discontinue it at this time)

It was a long week for sure. 

Praise God we have faith!!